Measured Pleasure

Journal

Guides and reference articles on intimate product selection.

Buying GuidesBad Dragon Wait Times: What to Actually Expect

Bad Dragon says 5–6 weeks. Community reports range from 3 to 13 weeks. Here's what determines your wait, how to reduce it, and what to do if you need something sooner.

20 April 2026 · 5 min read

Buying GuidesSex Toys That Ship to Jamaica — The Practical Guide

Jamaica's customs position on sex toy imports has been ambiguous for over a decade. Here's what actually ships, what the legal situation is, and your real options.

19 April 2026 · 5 min read

Buying GuidesSex Toys That Ship to Trinidad & Tobago — What Actually Works

Trinidad's customs ban on sex toy imports has been repeatedly challenged in court. Here's the current legal situation, what actually ships, and your practical options.

18 April 2026 · 6 min read

Buying GuidesWhy Does My Dildo Hurt? A Practical Guide to Fixing Fit

Discomfort during dildo use is almost always fixable. Here's how to identify whether the problem is size, lubrication, arousal, or material — and what to do about each.

17 April 2026 · 7 min read

Buying GuidesSex Toys That Ship to South Africa — A Practical Guide

Most major international sex toy retailers don't ship to South Africa, or charge prohibitive fees when they do. Here's what actually works.

1 April 2026 · 6 min read

Buying GuidesA Practical Guide to Choosing Your First Toy

The retail environment is overwhelming and not particularly designed to help you make a good decision. Here's a clear framework.

17 January 2025 · 7 min read